What happens when you stay up past your bedtime… and you can’t speak Swahili

Okay friends, I know this is a repeat, but I just got back from vacation and the reality of what I have to pull off in the next 3 days. So I thought I’d recycle a Congo fav for those who missed it the first time or just want to laugh again at the ridiculous shit I get myself into.

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Saving Lwiro

I was only one month into my 6-month stint working at the chimpanzee sanctuary in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Despite the fact that everything I was seeing and doing on a daily basis was on the verge of surreal, I was confined to a very small area (given the whole ‘conflict/tail end of civil war’ thing) and my daily routine was already getting a bit monotonous.

Although I am an introvert through and through, my only options for companionship were my limited encounters with the chimps, awkward charade-like exchanges with the staff (French/Swahili speakers) and way too much time spent with my cantankerous Spanish-speaking supervisor. I was becoming increasingly desperate for civil, grammatically-correct, ‘I can actually crack a joke’ conversation.

I seriously started considering my exit strategy when I found out two women were coming to volunteer for a month. The thought of late-night talks, belly laughs and an occasional sounding board for said cantankerous boss quickly overrode all introverted tendencies, and I began counting the days. Not surprisingly, we were all close in age and cut from the same cloth (it’s a rare breed that decides up and moving to the Congo to save the chimps seems like a good idea), and it was immediately apparent that getting ourselves into trouble was not going to be a problem.


Typically, our workday started at 6:30am and ended around 4:30pm. Dinner was served at 5, and we had all usually ‘showered’ (in a tub/bucket kind of way) and eaten by 5:30.

Since we weren’t supposed to leave our house after dinner, this left a good chunk of time to entertain ourselves with very limited options; there was no electricity, we were usually too exhausted to read by candlelight, and going to bed before 8pm was simply torture. So most evenings were spent sitting around a candle on the porch, chatting, sipping beer or tea and periodically challenging each other to guess how much longer we had until our self-imposed bedtime of 8:30…because come on, who goes to bed before 8:30?

It was 8:30 on the dot. We had just blown out the candle and headed inside to get ready for bed. The girls went to their room, then immediately came running back out saying there was a fire outside their window. They jetted outside while I fumbled around in the dark trying to find my lantern, which had conveniently disappeared, yet again.

By the time I emerged, the girls were nowhere to be seen. I proceeded to run up the stairs to the gate and ran into Valentine, one of the night staff. Usually, when I’m in panic mode, the only thing that comes out of my mouth is in English (Spanish on a good day). But this time, the words flew out effortlessly (thanks to the trusty French podcast I listened to each morning while preparing the chimps’ breakfast.)

Tu sens ca? il y a un feu! (Do you smell that? There’s a fire!)

His eyes widened and he threw open the gate, taking off in a sprint. I silently congratulated myself for my mastery of the French language, translating his urgent response and subsequent actions to, Yes, Natalie, I do smell a fire. We should go immediately and put it out!

And with that, I was off to save Lwiro from its fiery fate.


Everything up to this point seemed completely logical- there was a fire and we were running toward it to put it out. But when we got to the fire, Valentine stopped abruptly, took a sharp turn to the left and lept into the forest. So I did what any insane woman in the heart of Africa would do.

I dove in after him.

This is a good time to point out that I had seen Valentine on a daily basis since my arrival. He was a sweet, soft-spoken older man who always had a smile on his face.  And although our conversation never progressed beyond the usual ‘ca va?, Oui, ca va bien’, he was one of my favorites.

So as ludicrous as it sounds, I never questioned my safety when diving into the depths of the jungle to follow Valentine. I did, however, question my sanity when I realized that I was sprinting through the depths of the jungle with no lantern and no clue as to where we were going or why.  And all I could think about were the millions of hungry, venomous predators I was pissing off as I stomped on top of them trying to get to wherever we were going as quickly as possible.


Before I knew it, Valentine was long gone, and I could see nothing other than thick, green vegetation closing in around me. The reality of being lost in the jungles of Congo with my extremely challenged sense of direction jolted me into survival mode. I screamed out at the top of my lungs… at the very moment that I ran smack into Valentine.

Completely disoriented and beyond traumatized, it took me a few seconds to gather myself and realize we were both staring straight at Susan… who was standing on my back porch.

She immediately burst out laughing, “Where the hell did you come from? We have been looking for you for the past fifteen minutes!”  

“Wait, what? Fifteen minutes? I don’t know what the hell you two have been doing, but Valentine and I have been chasing someone for hours! Although I’m not sure who…or why.

And did anyone manage to put out the fucking fire?”

The Light of Day

There was no fire. The neighbors were burning trash like they did almost every day. Although in our defence, we had never seen them do it at night, and it in no way resembled a harmless ‘we are just burning trash’ fire.

And as it turns out, my flawless execution of French was all for not. Most of the older workers communicate mainly in Swahili and know very little French if any. Valentine most likely saw the panicked white woman flailing about, pointing toward the forest, and assumed I’d seen some dangerous intruder.

And as for my near brush with death in the bush? I was actually in my own backyard, no further than a quarter of a mile from our back porch.

Lessons learned

Not a terrible idea to learn a few ‘could save your life’ phrases in the local language

Keep flashlight/lantern attached to your person at all times

No going out past bedtime

You can donate directly to the sanctuary here to support all the work that goes into protecting the chimps and other wildlife in danger of extinction. 

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16 thoughts on “What happens when you stay up past your bedtime… and you can’t speak Swahili

  1. If I didn’t know you so well, this story might have shocked the shit out of me, but, of course, it didn’t. Not one bit.

    ‘Where’s Brooke? she asked.
    While continuing to knit, not even looking up, I say, ‘Oh, she just ran into that burning building over there because she heard that there might be a spider trapped on the second floor.’
    ‘Oh my god. Aren’t…AREN’T YOU WORRIED?’ she asks.
    Me, visibly annoyed, stops knitting. Looks up.
    ‘It’s Brooke. She’ll be just fine. Since you are just standing there, pass me that ball of yarn would ya?’
    She passes me the yarn, a look of disgust and horror consuming her face. I glance over just in time to watch you run out of the building covered in soot, coughing slightly while cupping one hand over the other.
    ‘I SAVED THE SPIDER!’ you proudly holler, as you run towards us.
    ‘See? Told you,’ I say, as I nonchalantly begin knitting again.

    Life with Brooke. It’s always an adventure. I am so very blessed to be a part of it.

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  2. **I was only one month into my 6-month stint working at the chimpanzee sanctuary in the Democratic Republic of Congo.**

    OMGGGG, are you serious?

    How? Why? What made you start doing this?

    Amazing. Incredible.

    I’m ENVIOUS as HELL.

    –Jane Goodall actually wrote back to me after I wrote to her yrs ago.

    I’m rambling, but so excited that you are doing this.

    –My dream was to work w/ the Mountain Gorillas & I was obsessed and In LOVE w/Dian Fosse.

    Anyhow, I want to know more about your adventures.

    SO DAMN FUN & Worthwhile. xx

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    • Thank you so much!!! These posts are actually stories of my time there in 2013. I’ve always been passionate about wildlife conservation and initially also wanted to go to Rwanda and work for a gorilla sanctuary. But this is the sanctuary I ended up at, which was so rewarding and educational. However, as you will get glimpses of in some of the posts, it is not an easy life or as glamorous as you think it will be. That said, it did change me and I learned so much about how very complicated saving endangered animals is. My next mission is to go to an elephant sanctuary, but I want to make sure it is the right environment and I actually have something tangible I can contribute. There are a series of adventures before this one. Most of them say ‘Congo’ in the title. I so love your enthusiastic response and think if it is something you are passionate about, do some research, see how you can contribute and do it!!! :o)


  3. I remember this one, and still love it! You’re a wonder, madam, an absolute gem. And you answered my “evening shower” question from the last one. I recall the bucket thing now.

    Adventures in the Congo. The stories could go on forever, AFAIC. Now, good luck with your finding a home and roof and income thing!

    (although, I just realized this IS day three … how did it go?!)

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    • Well, income thing is still being determined…fingers crossed they reach out today and tell me how fabulous I am and how could they NOT hire me. 🙂 the roof thing is somewhat figured out but getting renovated, so I’m still sleeping on my friend’s couch…it’s all gonna fall into place, has to!! But I’ll take good vibes and prayers in the meantime!! 🙂


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